Learning from a hover fly

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I was sitting in my sun lounge the other day, listening to an inspiring audio and noticed a hover fly had flown in.  The south-facing brightly lit room attracts a lot of them in.  It sat on the inside step, by the glass door.  I opened the door to let it out.  It flew to the floor.  I got a piece of paper to slide under it and help it out.  It flew away again.  So I decided to leave it alone.  In a short time, it flew to freedom of it's own accord.

As is often the way in life, when you leave things to go with the natural flow, it makes life easier all round.  Sometimes it's very tempting to help someone or something, when their own wisdom will show them the open door when the time is right for them.

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